Coming out of a relationship in my opinion is no different than coming out of an addiction. You suffer withdrawal symptoms. The longer the addiction, the painful the withdrawal.
I wish their were patches for relationships like they have nicotine patches for smokers... life would have been lot simpler and the withdrawal less painful.
Ah! The wishes I wish, the dreams I dream.
Sniff.
I wish their were patches for relationships like they have nicotine patches for smokers... life would have been lot simpler and the withdrawal less painful.
Ah! The wishes I wish, the dreams I dream.
Sniff.
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Hey buddy but there are patches, unless you get addicted to them itself - There are bars, pubs, dance clubs :-) I think one should celebrate getting out of a relationship - after all isnt it so tiring?
yaar sharaab peta nahi.. aur yeh aankh ko koi aur bhata nahi... what to do?
Hmmmmm cumng out of a relationship is a big deal buddy...Sharab ka hangover jaldi utar jata hain...par relationship ka nahi...:)))..Bt i really praise tht line of urz "Yeh aankh ko aur koi bhata nahi"...
@Garfield.....y shud one celebrate after cumng out of a relationship???? Buddy itz so easy to start a relationship..bt itz damn difficult to c it thru...n hw one cn celebrate after puttng so much in2 a relationship?????
@j2imu - buddy I think thats an entire personal view. If a relationship has ended that means it was never meant to be.... Why shouldn't one celebrate getting out of something so tiring which took so much energy and eventually was never meant to be. There may be other reasons for a relationship to end which may be due to no fault of anybody, but then one has to be positive to get out of such things.
@Espee....
* Forget those thngs whch r behind n reach out for those things which r before.
*Thr shud alwayz b d idea of forward moving...moving away frm a situation whch one desires to forget.
*Do d Best u cn,Do all u cn....
@Garfield79 & @just2impressu - Thanks for the meaningful words... and I guess it is time 4 me to pack my bags and fly to the Carribbean Islands :-)
@espee1 Hey buddy nice to see you all cheered up.
You couldn't have come up with a better comparison. You stimulate your brain chemistry with love like you would any drug. It produces Endorphins and subsequent euphoria. The greater the love, the greater the consequences. I was addicted to opiates early on in my life. 20 years later I had someone abruptly leave me whom I loved like no other. I suffered more severe withdrawl and depression than with opiates because it lasted for years rather than months. Eventually, I became addicted to opiates again in my search for peace. My point, find a way to control it or it will kill you. My biggest mistake? I didn't try to find someone else and let myself sink deeper until the climb back seemed even more impossible. Be careful, it can get worse.
The person u need to find is yourself ... not another gurlfrnd cuz if its not someone u REALLY wna b with then ur jus settling , its like saying "hmmmm i cant hav that mansion so i really love my hut " .... I jus got out of an intense beautiful relationship cuz i moved across the world and then we fought n fought , Basically forever came to an end ... And i cried for a whole week in bed but then i made a lost of the things i love , skateboardin , dancin ,... Love is a celebration of two people who are complete by themselves , not people that compensate on each others needs cuz then it never really lasts ..... make a list of the qualities u loved bout ur ex the most , in high probability these were qualities u dint posess ...
like my ex wuz calm in a storm when i went psycho on him n i was always amazed ..... Say " i love you " to yourself .... sounds wierd duznt it ?? if u u dont love u , why shud anyone else ?? n its not the arrogant conceited love but loving who u are , as a person n everything about u .......
LOVE IS AMAZING THAT WAY , cuz u dnt get addicted as u arent compensating but ur celebrating ..... YOU FIRST ALWAYS ... !! u can call that selfish but tell me if the other way around has worked so far ....
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOURSELF !!
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